Welcome to the official website for Mistress Ashadar.

Disclaimer:

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SESSION POLICIES

Session Conditions

INFORMED CONSENT STATEMENT:

I understand that I am requesting, and at my own risk, participating in a voluntary BDSM session. I understand that activities within the session will be conducted by mutual consent. I accept sole responsibility to: 

  • Take full responsibility for my experience. 
  • Decide what activities I wish to participate in during the session and decide what my boundaries are.
  • Communicate these decisions clearly during the screening call, before the session, as well as any changes to these decisions during the session. 
  • Be ready, willing and able to use the GREEN, YELLOW, RED, BLUE safe word system and other non-verbal signals to request an adjustment or stop to the session. 
  • Signal immediately any fatigue, shortness of breath, chest discomfort, nausea, pain, numbness, or discomfort. 

I understand I can discontinue participation at any time during the session, proceed immediately to aftercare, or leave without prejudice against me, beyond fees or tribute for the session.

LIMITS OF LIABILITY:

I understand that any and all activities undertaken during the session are voluntary and are at my own risk. I agree to indemnify and hold harmless all participants in the session from all claims of liability, injury, death, property loss or damage, attorney’s fees and costs, and I agree to reimburse them for any such claims they may have.

 

  • I verify that I am a consenting adult over the age of 18.
  • I understand that Mistress Ashadar will require additional identity verification and/ or 3 strong provider references. 
  • I understand that domination does not involve sex or any unlawful act. I will not ask for illegal solicitations.
  • I have studied Mistress Ashadar’s entire website, especially the Protocol and Etiquette page, and will not ask any questions already answered there.
  • I understand session rates are non-negotiable and I will not haggle for payment discounts.
  • I understand that I am not guaranteed any specific requests or session interests, but that my attitude and comportment will influence all interactions. I will submit to all of Mistress Ashadar’s decisions.
  • I understand that all bookings require a non-refundable 50% deposit at the time of booking. The remaining 50% will be paid prior to or at the start of the session.
  • I have read and agree to the Deposit Policy and the Rescheduling and Cancellation Policy. I understand that all deposits, fees, gifts and tributes are non-refundable.

Deposit Policy

PRE SESSION DEPOSIT

A Pre-Session screening is required for all first time clients. A non-refundable Pre-Session fee ($50) is required at the moment of submitting your Apply to Play form.

IN PERSON SESSION DEPOSIT

A non-refundable 50% deposit is required to book. The remainder 50% is due immediately at the start of the session.

ONLINE SESSION DEPOSIT

A non-refundable 50% deposit is required to book. The remainder 50% is due before the session begins, as to not waste session time.

LAST MINUTE BOOKING FEE

Session requests made within 48 hours are considered last minute bookings, and may be available with an additional $250 last minute booking fee. The entire session cost, including pre-session cost ($50) and last minute booking fee ($250) must be paid in entirety upon booking.

All deposits, fees, gifts and tributes are non-refundable.

Rescheduling & Cancellation Policy

RESCHEDULING

All sessions must be rescheduled at least 48 hours in advance to transfer your deposit to a new date. Rescheduled sessions may only be rescheduled only once, and must be within 30 days of your original session date. Failure to reschedule within 48 hours will be considered a cancellation, and I expect to be compensated for our scheduled time in full.

If I am touring and the new suggested date of appointment is after I have left the city, it will be considered a cancellation.

CANCELLATIONS

If you need to cancel, please contact Me as soon as possible. Should you cancel your appointment with less than 48 hour’s notice, your deposit will be forfeited, and I expect to be compensated for our scheduled time in full. 

If there are continuous lapses in communication, reschedules, cancellations, or no shows, I reserve the right to require the entire session paid in full at the time of booking.

LATENESS

If you are late for your session, I may allow up to a 15-minute grace period at My discretion. Beyond 15 minutes, you will be considered a no-show and your tribute will be forfeit. If you are late, I expect to be compensated not only for our scheduled time in full, but any additional time added.

**By submitting this session application, I acknowledge I have read, understood, and agree to the contents of this form, and I confirm that all information given to me is correct to the best of my knowledge.**