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ARE YOU READY TO SURRENDER CONTROL AND EXPLORE THE DEPTHS OF YOUR DESIRES?

Step into a world where fantasies become reality. My BDSM services offer a unique blend of sensuality, sadism and control, tailored to ignite your deepest desires and push the boundaries of psychological submission. From sensual bondage to intense domination, each session is a carefully crafted exploration of power dynamics and deepening your erotic blueprint. Whether you’re new to the world of BDSM or a seasoned worshiper, I will guide you on a journey of self-discovery and mind-body freedom. Embark on an unforgettable adventure and surrender to Me with My exclusive BDSM offerings.

I am discerning about who enters My realm and deliberate about where I invest My energy. I accept new submissives based on My interest in you as an individual, your motivations for serving me, and the chemistry of our desires. To be considered to Play, it is vital that you approach Me with thoughtfulness and adhere to My Protocol & Etiquette.

Only submissives who apply through My Apply to Play form will be considered.

SILVER OFFERINGS

VIRTUAL EXPERIENCES

Happy Hour Virtual Session

Decompress after a day at the office with a meticulously crafted virtual domination session. Designed for those seeking an immersive psychological escape after a demanding work day. Lock that office door and pour yourself a drink. There’s no better way to unwind than with Play. Phone or video. Or, if you’re stuck in a meeting and are bored, let’s text.

$300 / 1 Hour

$600 / 2 Hours

$900 / 3 Hours

Taste of Keyholding

Enter the realm erotic denial via virtual chastity play. Step off the rollercoaster of unlimited self gratification and post ejaculatory dysphoria by surrendering to the discipline of Mistress Ashadar’s control. Includes AM and PM check-in’s, photo accountability on demand, elective quests, and sadistic tease and denial.

$300 / Weekend

$600 / Week

$2200 / Month

BDSM Coaching

Whether you are ready to discover your BDSM blueprint, enhance self confidence, or learn how to build a healthy kink relationship, Mistress Ashadar is here to offer guidance from her 6 years of experience in a healthy and loving 24/7 kink relationship. Spice (or spank) up the bedroom by embracing your authentic self. Coaching is available for solos, couples, trios, and more!

$300 / 1 HOUR SINGLE SESSION COACHING CALL

$1500 / 6 SESSION COACHING PACKAGE ($250 EACH)

GOLD OFFERINGS

DUNGEON EXPERIENCES

Classic Dungeon Session

Embark on a journey of complete liberation with an In Person Dungeon Session, meticulously crafted for those seeking full mind-body respite from the demands of work, deadlines, and expectations. Choose your adventure with all the BDSM classics: bondage, impact, power exchange, and more. Dungeon sessions are designed to provide a profound psychological escape, and 2 hours + is recommended for full psychological immersion

$400 / 1 Hour

$600 / 1.5 Hours

$800 / 2 Hours

$1200 / 3 Hours

Touring and outcall rates carry an additional surcharge

Erotic Domination Session

Have you ever been consumed by the thirst of a Dark Dominatrix? This offering is for the one who craves the dark eros of a dungeon session delivered not by Mistress Ashadar alone, but by her lascivious alter ego—Succubus. Surrender your psyche to a realm of consummate lust and carnal worship, a fantasy that reaches far beyond the mere physicality of whips and chains.

$600 / 1 Hour

$800 / 1.5 Hours

$1200 / 2 Hours

$1800 / 3 Hours

Shamanic Corporal Absolution

The cycle of wrongdoing and absolution is essential for maintaining good physical and mental health. Whether you carry a dark secret, bear the weight of generational guilt or shame, or seek renewal through self-forgiveness, a Shamanic Corporal Absolution session is designed to wring you out, balance the psyche, and restore inner peace.

$750 / 1.5 Hours

$1500 / 3 Hours

PLATINUM:

Fantasy Experiences

Dinner and Domination Date Night

Indulge in a unique fusion of exquisite dining followed by an expertly crafted domination session. This customized experience is tailored for those seeking not just a BDSM session but an immersive evening of engaging conversation, culinary indulgence and sensual titillation.

$2,000 / 4 HOURS

$3,000 / 6 HOURS

Chemical Submission

This offering is a ritual-based experience, deepened by the support of plant medicine. Journey into an altered state of consciousness—known as ‘transient hypofrontality’—guided by expert facilitation and the transformative power of psilocybin. Surrender to a transcendent realm of subspace, unlocking a profound and unparalleled experience.

$2500 / 4 HOURS

Break In and/ or Kidnap Fantasy

Have you ever fantasized about being accosted in bed and slapped awake by a hungry Dominatrix? Surrender to an extraordinary experience with a consensual “surprise” scene that will terrify and titillate. Whether you find yourself tied and gagged in your bedroom or thrown in the trunk of a car on route to an unknown adventure, this offering is for the fetish connoisseur who is ready for an immersive exploration of edge play and dark fantasy. Offering unlocked after completing prerequisite Dungeon or Dinner and Domination sessions.

$3200 / 4 HOURS + TRAVEL FEE

$4800 / 6 HOURS + TRAVEL FEE

A Torture of Mistresses

Treat yourself to a high octane weekend kneeling at the feet of Me and My kinkiest Friends, attending to Our every whim. Will We lavish you with attention, punish you without mercy or fight over you like a piece of meat? Serve Us, submit to Us, and surrender to an intense, full sensation FemDomme weekend that you will remember for a lifetime.

$10,000 / 2 DAY, 1 NIGHT WEEKEND

$15,000 / 3 DAY, 2 NIGHT WEEKEND

We require 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep and 3 solid meals per day.

Fly Me To You

I only fly to clients for a minimum of $5,000 in tribute fees. I require airfare, transportation and accommodations to be covered, and a session deposit made at time of booking.

Touring and outcall rates carry an additional surcharge.

DIAMOND:

LIFESTYLE OFFERINGS

Long Term Domination or Key Holding

Exclusive opportunity for a limited number of dedicated devotees to partake in long term lifestyle servitude. Enjoy private admittance into My inner world including but not limited key holding, kinky texting, long distance chastity, in person or virtual sessions, and in person or virtual servitude.

STARTS AT $1500 PER MONTH, BY APPLICATION ONLY

Executive Men’s Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle

In ancient times, kings would consult Oracles for advice on important matters such as warfare, politics, and governance. This is an exclusive opportunity for a limited number of power players to leverage the unfair advantage of a Domme Oracle. Whether you’re commanding the boardroom or closing a deal, Mistress Ashadar is your Domme Advisor to maximizing decision-making skills and personal power, creating win-win scenarios in all aspects of life.

With Her unparalleled interpersonal skills and over 16 years of no-bullshit business experience, capitalize on Mistress Ashadar’s expertise to elevate your success. Includes but not limited to private dinners, no bullshit business coaching and advisory services, business event “girlfriend” companionship, and full access to all session offerings.

STARTS AT $2500 PER MONTH, BY APPLICATION ONLY

The Diamond Collar Club

The Diamond Collar Club is Mistress Ashadar’s private slave harem. This elite inner circle is reserved for those who seek the thrill of absolute surrender and kneeling closest to My feet. This ultimate offering is curated for the rare few invested in seeking ultimate salvation from the mendacity of this physical realm. Immerse yourself in My breath, actualize into My desires, and receive the ultimate gift of rebirth, into My pleasure.

STARTS AT $5000 PER MONTH. BY INVITATION ONLY.

READY TO EXPLORE YOUR LIMITS?

Embrace your desires and surrender to your erotic blueprint